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Growing Pains

The harsh reality of surviving heartbreak

I had become painfully aware of a limiting belief that has been keeping me stuck in perpetual singleness, for 65% of my adult life to be exact.

November 6, 2026November 6, 2026 by Libby4 Min Reading

Blog Challenge

What is the longest running obstacle in your life?

This optical has been keeping me stuck for at least 13 years!!! By the end of this blog challenge, I certainly hope I will have made some serious headway on this.

October 30, 2026October 30, 2026 by Libby2 Min Reading

Blog Challenge

Are obstacles really just fears holding you back?

The more I hang out with my obstacles, the more I realize just how many of them I seem to have created for myself as a compensatory strategy.

September 19, 2026October 4, 2026 by Libby5 Min Reading

Blog Challenge

Can you reframe your biggest obstacle as a to-do list?

They say you can reframe any obstacle as a to-do list — my first instinct was to reject that completely. Turns out, that reaction was the obstacle.

July 25, 2026October 4, 2026 by Libby4 Min Reading

Blog Challenge

What would happen if you overcame the obstacle?

If I were to overcome the obstacle of fear itself, in whatever form it may take, what then would I be left with to fill the void that remains before it sucks back in yet another fear?

July 4, 2026October 4, 2026 by Libby3 Min Reading

Blog Challenge

What is standing in your way right now?

Lack of time, money, and energy used to be my excuses — turns out the real obstacle was me. 😳

June 28, 2026October 4, 2026 by Libby3 Min Reading